WHY?

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Hello everyone, so I have been thinking, why is it difficult to make that perfect decision?

You know, sometimes, it’s so easy for us to make easy decisions, but that decision that seem so important, life changing and drastic, we get confused.

Why?

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  1. AnonymousOctober 11, 2022 at 12:27 AM

    Hi, flourish, it's Izuchukwu.
    I think most life making decisions requires us pulling the bull by its horn, the same way we are sure about those easy decisions is how we want to be sure before making those difficult decisions.
    We think if we do it we might fail and make bad decisions too. No one wants to fail but we fail to realize that we fail not because we made a wrong decision but because we made efforts. You have to try first to see what's on the other side.

    I think the spirit of God(very important) is also needed on making so many decisions too, there are things we can't do ordinarily but with the grace of God, we were able to do it. I know when it was time for me to stand as a man, I was confused, I nearly returned to Lagos but I was with God all through my trial times, he directed me without my own belief. Where people went and got increments in price I got the old price and favour followed and it was like doors started opening.
    Today is 10/10 mental health awareness day, if you checked my post on WhatsApp all my family members were after me to marry. I told myself that I won't pray to God because of woman, it's the least of my worries until last week when I was talking with one of my family friend who I call mom. She reminded me how God is needed in my decision of life partner and it's going to be my next phase with God because I don't want to make mistake on the mother of my kids too.

    So in as much as this is lengthy, I think seeking God first makes most impossible decisions possible even though some we have to fail before we get it right but something are not meant to be failed on,
    I hope this is helpful.

    I am depressed though about this wife matter but since I'm used to being a loner this days I will pull through out of it.
    My friend said, what a man is of age to do, when it's time it starts bordering him. It's that time , it's disturbing me but I won't rush in and rush out because that definitely what it will look like if I don't take the little time I have now.

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  2. Onyinyechukwu OkolieOctober 11, 2022 at 9:24 AM

    For me I think it is hard because I'm a perfectionist. I want to determine the outcome from the start and ensure there are no issues
    I also think it's because of the fear of failure and my low risk appetite. Which is ironic, especially as I've been doing business for 4years now.

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