THREE IS A CROWD
I grew up hearing the words ‘three is a crowd’ and assumed it only relates to going out on a date and inviting a third party. As an adult (eyes rolling) I have come to understand that it transcends that. A third, fourth or fifth person in any kind of ship is a crowd. Could be friendship, relationship or situationship. One thing I hold dear and scared is friendship. You barely hear me refer to someone as a friend, if I haven’t convinced myself that what we share is worth giving a special tag. Then, there is the skepticism of being in a friendship circle that has more than two persons involved. Being more than two in a supposed circle gives room for gossip, vile statements, delusional believe of jealousy and crazy assumptions that can leave a mark of hatred. It is important you understand yourself first; your lifestyle, beliefs, desires, goals and perception about things and life before making someone who shares the same a friend. If either of you decide to introduce someone ...